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Sprouting Seeds and Starting Your Own Garden

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What does a garden signify to you? Maybe you have zero desire to have or keep up with one. To plant, water, watch, wait, harvest, and go through the whole process. That’s okay, I still think this post will mean something to you..

VERY early on in our marriage my husband Asa has always created a garden in our backyard. The first one was on 2nd street in Old Louisville. Gardening and growing is basically his thing. He has always gotten so excited to create a plan, a blueprint of how he dreamt it would be. I wish I had pictures of all of them (and maybe I do?) but what I did remember that I have, are photos from 2013.. when Pierson was twelve months old and we lived in our first HOME…and oh my heart, Guys. How sweet are THESE? Jackson Street, how I love and miss you and cherish all of these sweet memories!

Anyway, back to why you are here—gardens and how in the world to get started! This is what Asa had to say on it…

When it comes to planting seeds and starting gardens I like to employ the KISS method of thinking. It’s not very elegant, but Keep It Simply, Stupid. (Sorry, you aren’t stupid. I needed a working acronym.) Basically, don’t over think it. You need soil, light, water and a seed. We can get into the nuances of which soil, how much light, and how much water. The temperature of water and soil? Which seeds? Organic of non-organic? Which variety of each seed? And the list goes on. If this is your first garden, keep it simple. Learn as you go. There is a reason growing seeds is a kindergarten science project. Just grab dirt and a cup. Bury your seeds (not too deep). Add water and put them in a window. You’re likely to have success.

The more detailed version of what we are doing is this. Grab yourself a seed tray from the hardware store. (Probably any department store will carry them this time of year.) This tray has 72 slots, which admittedly is a LOT of seedlings for my family. I grabbed one bag of organic vegetable potting soil to fill the slots. To be honest, “organic” was the option on sale that day. I don’t have a strong preference here. Then I grabbed seeds. This one is tricky to do the first time or two. Knowing what seeds will grow in your yard, how much sunshine your projected garden gets outside, what food your family will eat, and eat regularly and other factors really go into seed selection. For now, pick things that need full sun, (thats most fruits and vegetables) and think of things you’ll eat. We eat a lot of tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, spinach, lettuce, melons, and herbs.

When you plant seeds, put 2 or 3 seeds in each cup. This is a fail safe for you. If one or more seed is dead, hopefully the other will grow. As the seedlings grow, you will need to thin it down to one strong seedling per pod. This is normal. Don’t sweat it. Save the nutrients in the dirt for the healthiest one that sprouts. Once your seeds are planted you need to give them a little water. Keep the soil MOIST (yeah, I said it) but not wet. And put the cups in a bright window. We are using grow lights from an old AeroGarden. The AeroGardens are amazing indoor planters, but cost a fortune. And honestly they limit the number of seedlings you can sprout to 7-9. So I’m simply using the lights above my tray this time around.

As your seeds grow, you will need to transplant them to bigger cups from their slots in the tray. Keep them indoors until all risk of frost has passed. About a week or so before you put them outside, you need to “harden off” the seedlings. This simply means put them outside for 8-10 hours a day and bring them in at night. It gets them used to the temperature change of the outdoors. Once they are hardened off, you can plant them directly into the soil at the appropriate distance (social distance?) from each other. The seed packages will have all the planting and sunlight details on them.

This year we are growing some of our favorites, tomatoes, cucumbers and peppers. And adding some new things to try like carrots and swiss chard. The newest goal for this springs garden is to create a rhythm of planting so we are daily harvesting and replanting to keep a steady stream of food, instead of a massive harvest with too much to eat at one time.

Lara Casey is one of my favorite authors and I love her heart for the Lord. In an excerpt from her book, Cultivate: A Grace-Filled Guide to Growing an Intentional Life, she said this:

The world says do more, grow fast, be big, use these tricks, analyze, do it like those people, get ahead. But that’s not how good things take root. Maybe, despite what everyone tells you, slow is richer than fast. Maybe a slower pace will help your roots stretch deep and wide. It’s okay to grow slow.

I always feel like I resonate SO much with her words, her philosophy, and I just wanted to share even a snippet of her wisdom. GOOD things take time. A slow pace is not bad. We need roots, we need to be able to stretch, to grow, to replenish our nutrients. And you know what…? Right now, when the world seems to be at the quite possibly the largest stand still it has ever been in MY life, maybe this is THE perfect time to work on growing slow.

Friends, order some seeds or get them from your local grocery store if yours are still open, and just start. See what takes sprout, and where it goes from here. And if you have questions—email me! Asa is so awesome and kinda geeks out over this stuff :)

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Social Distancing Ourselves to the Woods

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“Kids don’t remember their best day of television…”

I recently saw that quote and wanted to share. Right now, our world is looking at a Global Pandemic. We have been faced with worry, anxiety, consuming thoughts, and all the what ifs. Something our family has always done, health pandemic or not, is go OUTSIDE when we are needing a reset. Being outdoors is one of our favorite weekend pastimes so this past Sunday wasn’t really that different for us… This is me encouraging you all, whoever and wherever you may be, to try this as soon as your time allows—and for us now, looking down the lens of potentially three or more weeks of school and work OFF, this is going to happen even more often.

Hiking.

Have you ever felt that bitter taste in your heart and soul? Like this feeling of YUCK when realizing the negativity and hateful comments/words that the universe just tosses around like NO big deal? I bet anything that you have and you may be feeling and tasing those things right now! There is almost constant news coverage going on about the COVID-19 (Corona Virus), and LOTS of people are obsessing, panicking, and even verbally attacking one another. It can be downright exhausting, and I refuse to let my mind get sucked in. Sometimes then, more than ever, adventure is a necessity. Let it cleanse your heart, let it rid the nasty negativity from your overwhelmed soul. Go be in nature. Listen to the trees. Go HIKE!

This is a place called Garvin Brown Nature Preserve. It is a 46-acre preserve super close to River Road, and it is open from dusk until dawn. We discovered this beautiful location not too long ago, and I will never forget Christmas Day 2019—when it was a freakishly warm Christmas and we all went here for a nice long stroll. Elsa pranced around, running through brush and all the water she could find.. I know without a doubt that trails and water were 100% her love language (and the same is now true for Emma, which is pretty dang sweet.) There is something just completely wonderful about Garvin Brown and if you are local reading this, I highly, highly encourage you to go and explore, especially while we are being told to practice extreme social distancing…take your kids, your pup(s), or just even yourself, and go breathe. You will never regret slowing down and enjoying the SIMPLE joys of life, I promise. And your kids will be better for it too!

PS: We had NO IDEA what this terrifying looking fish was (and pretty soon found out) but do you know?! Tell me in the comments below if you 100% know (WITHOUT GOOGLING) what kind it is!! I mean, OH MY WORD, can you imagine swimming with this thing?! (Not that you would swim in the Ohio River, but STILL.)

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Never too Late for Christmas Cookies

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Remember when I said the days were going quickly..? We blinked and Christmas came and went. That’ll be its’ own blog post, I am just always so shocked how fast it all goes, even when I always know it will. Since our kids were tiny we have made sugar cookies and decorated them for Santa, and this year, two of our dearest friends joined us!

Kennedy Lynn is two years old now, and I am still in denial that she is no longer a newborn. We still remember well Tim and Clayton going to the hospital when she was born, bringing her home, and then adopting her! Her birthday is only a couple days apart from Reese’s, and Reese has been her claimed BFF from the very beginning. Kennedy says her name with such pride and joy, and we just love having her around to be in these memories with us!

I recently saw a post on Pinterest [author unknown] that says this:

“You will never have this day with your children again. Tomorrow, they will be a little older than they were today. This day is a gift. Just breathe, notice, study their faces and little feet. Pay attention. Relish the charms of the present. Enjoy today. It will be over before you know it.”

I know if you’re in the thick of things in those newborn days, it may seem surreal that they will be any bigger. In any stage there are moments of frustration, of anger, of sadness, of doubts, of ALL the feelings—you’re wondering if you are doing a good job. If they will remember your hard work. If they will remember the good, especially when there have undoubtedly been moments of bad. Here are my snapshots of some of our good. Decorating cookies with small children isn’t a guarantee of sunshine and roses, of complete laughter and giddiness; often there are messes and spills, tears over mistakes, and for a mama who really loves QUIET—it is generally a very HAPPILY loud memory.

Does your family do any baking together in the holiday season? What are some of your traditions? I would love to hear in the comments below, or always feel free to hit REPLY to these posts! Happy Holidays, Sweet Readers and Friends.